My Brave Year Of Firsts: Tries, Sighs, and High Fives

Name: My Brave Year Of Firsts: Tries, Sighs, and High Fives
Author: Jamie Lee Curtis

A story that explores courage and opens a conversation with your child.

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♥ This book teaches: Courage. doing what is right even when it is hard.

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Guiding Questions for Parents.

Definition: Courage is being willing to face something hard or scary, like trying to do something you’ve never done before. In short: Do good, try hard even when it’s scary. Summary: The girl in the story shares about her “firsts”, riding a two-wheeler for the first time, picking up a dog’s poop, learning to tie shoes, becoming a first grader, getting a library card, and more. Her message in a nutshell: life is full of adventures so be brave, true, and strong and have lots of firsts! Kids will have a lot to talk about after reading this very relatable and amusing story. Lesson Objectives:

Students will be more likely to try new things as they discuss their own “firsts.” They will be encouraged to look at such challenges as adventures like the girl did in this story. Teachers can remind students that when something is hard, look at it like an adventure, tell yourself to have fun as you work on it.

Guiding Questions:

Do you think the girl was courageous to get back on the bike after she crashed several times or do you think it was easy for her because she wasn’t afraid of getting hurt? (Remember she was wearing a helmet for protection, which is what everyone should do when riding a bike)
It’s nice to take care of a pet dog, but what was one thing she had to do that was hard?
What helped her feel okay on her first day of school?
What happened when she stole someone’s pencil?
Do you think it took courage to admit she told a lie? Did she think she did the right thing when she admitted her lie? Do you think it’s better to admit it when you tell a lie or try to hide it? Why?
When she was at the library something special happened. What was it?
Do you think she was afraid when she looked down from the cliff before jumping in the water? Does having courage mean you’re not afraid, or does it mean you’re afraid but you’re willing to try something?
Can you think of a first of yours that you could do after trying many times? What was it and how did you feel when you did it?
Can you think of a first that makes you cry?
Can you think of a first that makes you smile?

🌿 Virtue Connection: Courage means acting on what is right even in the presence of fear.

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My Brave Year Of Firsts: Tries, Sighs, and High Fives

by Jamie Lee Curtis

Guiding Questions

Students will be more likely to try new things as they discuss their own “firsts.” They will be encouraged to look at such challenges as adventures like the girl did in this story. Teachers can remind students that when something is hard, look at it like an adventure, tell yourself to have fun as you work on it.

Guiding Questions:

Do you think the girl was courageous to get back on the bike after she crashed several times or do you think it was easy for her because she wasn’t afraid of getting hurt? (Remember she was wearing a helmet for protection, which is what everyone should do when riding a bike)
It’s nice to take care of a pet dog, but what was one thing she had to do that was hard?
What helped her feel okay on her first day of school?
What happened when she stole someone’s pencil?
Do you think it took courage to admit she told a lie? Did she think she did the right thing when she admitted her lie? Do you think it’s better to admit it when you tell a lie or try to hide it? Why?
When she was at the library something special happened. What was it?
Do you think she was afraid when she looked down from the cliff before jumping in the water? Does having courage mean you’re not afraid, or does it mean you’re afraid but you’re willing to try something?
Can you think of a first of yours that you could do after trying many times? What was it and how did you feel when you did it?
Can you think of a first that makes you cry?
Can you think of a first that makes you smile?

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